Why hello there, hadn’t seen you come in.
If you are here (which you are), I’m guessing what brought you here was one of three things:
Maybe it was your curiosity. Maybe, in your life and relationships, you care about connecting more deeply than what we see on the surface. Or maybe, it was pure coincidence (if you believe in that).
Either way, you’re welcome to stay, and I hope you’ll like it here.
Wait. I didn’t even bother to introduce myself yet. How rude of me…
I’m Pep. I’m the guy you see on the left (ginger beard, bald head, incredibly handsome). I’m here to serve connection and wholeness. Within ourselves, between each other, and with this moment.
I aim to do this in a way that integrates all aspects of this world, who we are and our experience. Including things we’d normally be quick to dismiss. And while that includes not shying away from depths or darkness, I’m a big proponent of making things playful and having plenty of fun in the process.
My work mostly consists of events, workshops and recurring online sessions. But this website was originally born in 2015 as a place to write about insights gathered from my exploriments…which I still do.
If you’re curious, here are some examples:
The Connection Dojo
I run an online training and practice space for connection skills where we learn through games, exploriments and direct experience.
It’s an intimate group with capped spots, which allows everyone to build genuine relationships with each other that offer a base solid enough for risk-taking, yet soft enough to rest in.
I’m also available as a facilitator, mentor or spaceholder for anyone hosting their own events about connection. Or can create custom workshops and curriculums for your co-livings, retreats, conferences, festivals and similar contexts.
If you’re interested in hiring or collaborating with me, you can reach out here.
“You end up having conversations where in 10 minutes, you feel like you’ve known each other forever.”
— S.
One thing that’s changing for me is how I’m showing up to people in my life. I subconsciously started implementing some of the practices like deep listening without imposing my worldview, being curious to understand better, and many other small details which are really shaping my relationships.
— Ragav
“Something unexpected happened… It felt like there was no space between us. Just pure relatedness.
It was healing. Liberating. Psychedelic even. I’m already seeing relationships differently.”
— Matt
Effortless
Transcending the Illusions of Self-Development
At its heart, “Effortless” is a book about allowing yourself to happen. And allowing life to happen through you.
It’s written for people who have spent years exploring personal development, self-healing, spirituality or therapy and poses the bold question:
What if the many ways you “sabotage” yourself (resistance, excuses, persistent feelings or patterns…) are actually forms of wisdom we don’t fully understand yet?
I appreciate you for visiting me here on the interwebs, and reading all the way until the end.
If you want to keep reading, I send in-depth emails about these same topics nearly every day.
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